Thursday, December 23, 2010

pasko ng paglaya

1. problem:

 .In what age is the hardest to handle a child?

 1.solution
 The countries were ranked by 4 major factors: health, economic status, political power and well-being of children. Included in the above were rankings for risk of maternal death, contraception use, life expectancy, education, income, participation in national government and mortality rate for children under age 5.

2.problem
 If you find yourself really stuck on who to name as your children's guardian, it might be because you've run into one of the problems listed below. If so, you're probably not just being persnickety. Many parents put off making a will because they can't decide on a guardian, but these tips might make that choice easier.
 2. solution
Focus on who could take care of your children in the next three to five years, knowing that you can change their guardian choices as the children, and their nominated guardians, grow older.

3.problem

Your child Won't Like Your Choices

3.solution

Explain your wishes in writing.Your first loyalty is to your children, and you should always make the choices that you think will serve them best. You should also know that a court challenge to your choice of guardian is unlikely -- and unlikely to succeed. A family member who wanted to overturn your choice of guardian would have to prove to a judge that there was a very good reason -- say, a child abuse conviction -- to set your choice aside.
Still, to prevent conflict as best you can, leave a written explanation of your choices. It can calm tension, and if necessary (again, this is unlikely), it could be used in court.

4.problem


Autistic child runsaway/elopes and won't stay with the cart and parent.

4.Solution:

I solved the issue of my autistic daughter running away from me in stores while shopping by sitting her in the cart. While she was in the cart, I talked constantly to keep her calm and sitting down. You should never keep pushing the shopping cart if the child stands up as it isn't safe as the child could fall out and bump their heads. There have been severe injuries when children fall out of grocery carts so keep a close eye on your child in the buggy. It was suggested by my daughter's therapists to bring along headphones so she could listen to music but this didn't help much. So I ended up stopping by the library for a new-to-her book to keep her busy. As she got older, I gave her a pen and a paper with the grocery list items on it so she could check off each item I placed in the buggy. It was hard as she got bigger to get all of our groceries in the cart with her sitting in it. Then once she was too big for the cart, I had to come up with a different strategy.

5.problem

Autistic child is too loud in the store.

Solution:



My child with autism gets very loud at times in grocery stores and I am routinely reminding her to be quieter. This is much worse in the wintertime when Christmas decorations are around and Christmas songs are played in the store. She gets overexcited and gets very loud. I find that if I keep her busy, this lessens quite a bit. I also remind her that if she pays attention and we get finished quickly, that she can play the games outside the grocery store.











Sunday, December 12, 2010

hopeful thoughts

I. When I was young there were lots problem that I have faced, because I belong in a separated family, but then my mother and my sister were always there to comfort me. I always wanted to have a complete family, to feel that my father is always being there for me. Give an advice, for my studies and also to my love life but unfortunately it’s not possible.
 Since I was young my mother and my sis were there for me, they supported me, that’s why I learned to become an independent child. Before I go to school I sell a bread to have my own baon.

II The one way that’s why  I’m still studying, and I always keep a good one because I know he always there beside me and guiding me what ever happened, and that is my great father (GOD), and I know he wanted  me to become successful someday. I always keep on asking him to guide me.

III I maintain to be a good  one, for myself,  my friends, classmate, professors, neighbors and to my family, because they are my inspiration to achieve my dreams in my life.